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May 27, 2022

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New Book by Pete Aman:

Fielders’ Choice – Life Lessons from Baseball

One of our readers, Pete Aman, is in the process of writing a new book, Fielders’ Choice – Life Lessons from Baseball. It’s a collection of 40 short essays, each featuring a ballplayer and an interesting life lesson we can learn from his life. Each of the essays is illustrated by an original watercolor by the author.  I was honored to serve as an editor for the project. 

One of the most powerful essays in the collection is the story of Darryl Strawberry and his remarkable recovery from the absolute rock bottom in which his life of addiction and alcohol had led him. The essay has a very appropriate subtitle: Hope, even in the depth of despair. If you know of someone who is struggling with life’s ups and downs or has even given up on life, I hope you will share Darryl Strawberry’s inspirational story. I’m happy to feature it here today. -GL

A Life Lesson from Darryl Strawberry

   Hope, even in the depths of despair

Darryl Strawberry, a 6’6” 190 lb. high school phenom, was touted as the next Ted Williams because of his smooth, powerful swing. The New York Mets selected him with the number one pick in the 1980 draft. “Straw” made it to the Big Stage in 1983, earning the Rookie of the Year Award. Over the next 17 seasons, his resume included four World Series Championships, two Silver Slugger Awards, eight All-Star selections, and 335 home runs. Seven times he was on the cover of Sports Illustrated. He was such an electrifying player that fans came to the ballpark early just to watch him take batting practice.

But there was an earlier chapter to Strawberry’s life. He grew up in a home dominated by an angry, alcoholic father. In a drunken rage, his father often beat his son’s bare back with an electrical cord, yelling at him and telling him he would never amount to anything. Scarred by the constant verbal abuse, beatings, and taunting, Darryl used sports as an escape from his father. He parlayed his natural talent into a “can’t-miss” future in professional baseball.

After Strawberry arrived in New York to start his career with the Mets, this 21-year-old, now with money to burn, was no match for the temptations in the Big Apple. He wanted desperately to fit in with the hard-partying Mets players. Introduced to drugs, he soon became trapped in a vicious web of cocaine and alcohol. He was blasting home runs while spinning out of control with his new lifestyle.

Following cuts from both the Dodgers and the Giants and his 1999 release by the Yankees, Strawberry suddenly found himself out of the game. He left behind a trail of misery—personal and professional failings fueled by cocaine addiction. His many transgressions included fights with teammates, skipped games, curfew violations, two divorces, three suspensions for drug possession, and a paternity suit. He had been kicked out of treatment centers, had suffered multiple arrests and probation violations, and was involved in a hit-and-run car wreck. He had even spent 11 months in a Florida State Prison.

The litany of other serious charges and offenses included federal tax evasion, failure to pay child support, domestic violence citations, and solicitation. In addition, he had endured two cancer surgeries and a resultant kidney removal. When he finally hit rock bottom, he was three million dollars in debt with no car and no house. All that remained of a former celebrity lifestyle and a once-promising career were shattered dreams, shattered relationships, and a sick body that had wasted away to 160 lbs.

In one of Strawberry’s recovery programs, he met a recovering addict, Tracy Boulware. Clean for a year, she knew nothing about baseball or Darryl Strawberry, but she read the despair on his face and thought she could help him. He told her to leave him alone. When Darryl relapsed again, Tracy was the one who searched crack houses and behind dumpsters in the seediest parts of town until she found him. He wanted to die, but Tracy refused to let him, telling him that God had a better plan for his life.

After Strawberry started listening to Tracy, he chose to separate himself from the

influences that had nearly destroyed him. He moved into a spare room in his sister’s apartment and began pouring himself into studying the Bible and reading books by Billy Graham. After his long, hard journey, Darryl Strawberry became a changed man, at peace with himself and with God. Baseball is no longer his identity. He has sold his memorabilia—bats, balls, rings and trophies—because “That Strawberry is dead.”^[i]

In their remarkable story of redemption, Darryl and Tracy, married since 2006, both became ordained ministers and authors. Together they are on a mission to educate young people about the danger of drugs and to point others to the way of faith. Together, their lives serve as vivid examples that there is always hope, even in the depths of despair. 

Pete Aman

(Selection from his forthcoming book, Fielders’ Choice: Life Lessons from Baseball)

[i] Bob Nightengale www.usatoday.com/story/sports/mlb/2013/07/11/darryl-strawberry-tracy-strawberry-ministries-new-york-mets-drugs/2509921/

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